Psychologists and counselors filed today a standard, AI has become almost a rule, Amnesty International that parents should not impose their aspirations for their children because they may inhibit their development and build basic skills naturally. Dr. Ramesh Gupta believes that, but with few exceptions, for the good of the individual family and society, parents should use their experience to help identify children and build their careers.
A child is the product family and the institution of marriage. Once a child is born, falls the responsibility of raising and educating parents. Every parent wants the baby to get the best joys in life and make a good name for the family. After the child has passed the tenth grade, the problem appears career choice. Parents face a difficult decision, if the AI further education should be decided according to the child, AOS interest and abilities, or the criteria of this stream of education offers the most happiness in his life.
If we give priority to the psychological point of view, we find that allowing a child to choose a career based on interests and its ability to operate without any stress in their chosen field. If you support this view, should make every effort to allow the child to take to ensure that the flow of education and career, which corresponds to its interest and capacity.
But some important questions arise here: What is the purpose of human life? If a child grow up to work according to their interests and abilities that far from home and family? Or does not make a compromise and choose a career that allows her to live with his family? In other words, we, AO joy and happiness are good only at the pinnacle of success or living with a family member, family and friends? That dilemma today, professional psychologists and experts AOS can not answer.
Where young people and parents first try to find answers to these questions, it would be easy for them to decide on a career. Is it because I gave so much importance to the family that developed the caste system for the Indian tradition. It has also led to the concept of joint family and the emergence of festivals and occasions, which required the involvement of family and society. This is the main reason why, in general, a king's son became a member of a king, a farmer, son of a farmer participating, a doctor, son of the participating physician and politician, son of a politician participant. This led to the balance and harmony in our society. This is why, despite all the modern amenities and comfort, there is a lack of social and family ties in America and Europe. And why people are rushing to India in search of peace and happiness. West is now coming around to accept the Indian way of life to be very scientific and strive to adopt same. But, unfortunately, on the other hand, the Indians began to believe that family and social ties are one Äòobstacle, AO AO interest and skills development so we headed for a unique existence. And therefore, issues such as family breakdown, stress, suicide and a life devoid of principles and values are as common in India and the West.
Psychologists also accept that the true joy of giving rather than receiving, is to enjoy something together rather than alone. And for this reason we have a large family of parents, brothers, uncles and aunts, grandmothers and grandfathers, who could share our joys and sorrows. This is possible when his son chose a profession that allows him to live and work with his father. The biggest advantage of this is that the son has made great efforts to establish his career. In addition to education, he can learn much too professional, while working with his father. This proves also beneficial for the father, so slowly that he can blame on the shoulders of the strongest and youngest son, is freed from family responsibilities in the natural course. There was a time when a father took me five or six, which gave rise also to the question of inheritance of the father and the share of the assets of the participant. But today, parents prefer an educated child, the adoption of the father, occupation of the participant or business by the son is not only practically, but practical.
Our ancestors were idiots who developed the system for family and caste. Indian tradition has been flourishing in this system, because time soon. Even if his son followed their parents' occupation, India has been producing great saints, scientists, actors, directors, poets and physicians. And this system prevented any increase in their talents.
Therefore, if a person is endowed with some unique talent, family or company never proved an obstacle to its development. great men like Gautama Buddha, Mahavira, Nanak, Tulsi, Aryabhatta and Osho is born in the Indian tradition the same, if the son follows his father's profession. Therefore, if there were no signs of unusual talent in children, parents should be advised to adopt the profession of the father, thus continuing the family tradition and family life remains smooth and quiet. 99 percent of children born with talents and minds of the ordinary. It depends on how they direct their children's parents to think and work. Psychologists also accept that a child's mind is like clay molded by parents, teachers and friends. Parents should not try to force their child certainly aspirations. Instead they should try to guide the child to choose a career, which is in the best interests of the child, family and society, so they can reach not only wealth but also peace and joy are the goals of human life .
A child is the product family and the institution of marriage. Once a child is born, falls the responsibility of raising and educating parents. Every parent wants the baby to get the best joys in life and make a good name for the family. After the child has passed the tenth grade, the problem appears career choice. Parents face a difficult decision, if the AI further education should be decided according to the child, AOS interest and abilities, or the criteria of this stream of education offers the most happiness in his life.
If we give priority to the psychological point of view, we find that allowing a child to choose a career based on interests and its ability to operate without any stress in their chosen field. If you support this view, should make every effort to allow the child to take to ensure that the flow of education and career, which corresponds to its interest and capacity.
But some important questions arise here: What is the purpose of human life? If a child grow up to work according to their interests and abilities that far from home and family? Or does not make a compromise and choose a career that allows her to live with his family? In other words, we, AO joy and happiness are good only at the pinnacle of success or living with a family member, family and friends? That dilemma today, professional psychologists and experts AOS can not answer.
Where young people and parents first try to find answers to these questions, it would be easy for them to decide on a career. Is it because I gave so much importance to the family that developed the caste system for the Indian tradition. It has also led to the concept of joint family and the emergence of festivals and occasions, which required the involvement of family and society. This is the main reason why, in general, a king's son became a member of a king, a farmer, son of a farmer participating, a doctor, son of the participating physician and politician, son of a politician participant. This led to the balance and harmony in our society. This is why, despite all the modern amenities and comfort, there is a lack of social and family ties in America and Europe. And why people are rushing to India in search of peace and happiness. West is now coming around to accept the Indian way of life to be very scientific and strive to adopt same. But, unfortunately, on the other hand, the Indians began to believe that family and social ties are one Äòobstacle, AO AO interest and skills development so we headed for a unique existence. And therefore, issues such as family breakdown, stress, suicide and a life devoid of principles and values are as common in India and the West.
Psychologists also accept that the true joy of giving rather than receiving, is to enjoy something together rather than alone. And for this reason we have a large family of parents, brothers, uncles and aunts, grandmothers and grandfathers, who could share our joys and sorrows. This is possible when his son chose a profession that allows him to live and work with his father. The biggest advantage of this is that the son has made great efforts to establish his career. In addition to education, he can learn much too professional, while working with his father. This proves also beneficial for the father, so slowly that he can blame on the shoulders of the strongest and youngest son, is freed from family responsibilities in the natural course. There was a time when a father took me five or six, which gave rise also to the question of inheritance of the father and the share of the assets of the participant. But today, parents prefer an educated child, the adoption of the father, occupation of the participant or business by the son is not only practically, but practical.
Our ancestors were idiots who developed the system for family and caste. Indian tradition has been flourishing in this system, because time soon. Even if his son followed their parents' occupation, India has been producing great saints, scientists, actors, directors, poets and physicians. And this system prevented any increase in their talents.
Therefore, if a person is endowed with some unique talent, family or company never proved an obstacle to its development. great men like Gautama Buddha, Mahavira, Nanak, Tulsi, Aryabhatta and Osho is born in the Indian tradition the same, if the son follows his father's profession. Therefore, if there were no signs of unusual talent in children, parents should be advised to adopt the profession of the father, thus continuing the family tradition and family life remains smooth and quiet. 99 percent of children born with talents and minds of the ordinary. It depends on how they direct their children's parents to think and work. Psychologists also accept that a child's mind is like clay molded by parents, teachers and friends. Parents should not try to force their child certainly aspirations. Instead they should try to guide the child to choose a career, which is in the best interests of the child, family and society, so they can reach not only wealth but also peace and joy are the goals of human life .
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